{"id":4696,"date":"2020-05-20T19:06:13","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T17:06:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/poradnia-harmonia.pl\/?p=4696"},"modified":"2020-07-14T14:26:11","modified_gmt":"2020-07-14T12:26:11","slug":"shyness-in-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/poradnia-harmonia.pl\/en\/shyness-in-children\/","title":{"rendered":"Shyness in Children"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Children are free from social conventions, prejudices or patterns, so their character and temperament is – it can be said – like a set of elements. It is hardly surprising that the child’s attitude is not always in line with the norms. The child learns behavior, recognizing his own emotions and reactions, but before he does, he makes a lot of mistakes, often embarrasses, he will not be able to adapt many times. And does shyness in a child<\/strong> require the help of a specialist<\/strong>?<\/p>\n

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Not a child, but a small person<\/h2>\n

A child differs from an adult by a lack of experience and by the fact that his nervous system is still maturing, and every reaction of the body and emotion is completely new to him. However, with each of them – including shyness<\/strong>, closure, and distance – he is trying to cope in his own way.<\/p>\n

Recognition of a child as a full-fledged person who has the right to his emotions and feelings from birth, as well as empathy and willingness to cooperate with the child are the key to understanding his reactions. This is not an easy task and many parents decide to seek help from a child psychologist<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Where does shyness in children come from?<\/h2>\n

Shyness in children<\/strong> is natural, although there are many factors that affect its deepening. Unfortunately, they can occur frequently.<\/p>\n

Many adults have a problem in making contacts, calling a stranger, answering phone calls, finding themselves in larger groups of people, and even a larger group of friends. And this is considered normal. Because it is explained with an introverted character, a bad day, fatigue, etc.<\/p>\n

In turn, children are often required to be open and pugnacious, even towards unknown people, in an unfamiliar environment and in situations that sometimes restrain adults. But we have to remember that the child also has the right to feel insecure. The lack of parental support in such a situation, or on the contrary – intrusive encouragement to enter into unwanted interactions – does not help in getting rid of shyness<\/strong>. Very often, the parent begins to think that this behavior is disturbing and decides to visit a specialist with the child<\/a>. However, it is not always justified.<\/p>\n

How to build confidence in your child?<\/h2>\n

Being shy<\/strong> can result from many factors and disappear due to meeting new people, new situations or circumstances, or on the contrary – deepen. What can you do to make your child feel more confident?<\/p>\n